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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.1 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Tue, 09 Feb 2010 07:22:29 GMT--><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>The Random Rebel Coffee Blog</title><link>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/</link><description>Time-Out For Moms: Family, Kids, Parenting, Life at 40</description><lastBuildDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 05:59:21 +0000</lastBuildDate><copyright>Copyright © 2004&lt;br&gt;The Rebel Housewife, LLC.&lt;br&gt; All rights reserved.&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="mailto:info@rebelhousewife.com"&gt;info@rebelhousewife.com&lt;/a&gt;</copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v5.9.1 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><item><title>Family Date Night</title><dc:creator>Sherri Caldwell</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 05:41:03 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/2010/1/3/family-date-night.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5580:36934:6204147</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>We've been homebodies this year.  As a family, with the exception of a Christmas Light Drive (Life University in Marietta) with the Rebel Grammy before Christmas, and Christmas Day to the other grandparents in Dahlonega, we haven't been out of Midtown.  We've barely been out of our pajamas and it's been *awesome*: video games and slow cooker-ing, walking and riding bikes in Piedmont Park, more games (offline), puzzles and catching up on <i>Battlestar Galactica</I> (the new one) from Season 1 on the AppleTV and DVD to be ready for the new series <I>Caprica</I> in January.</p><p>Tonight, we finally took ourselves Outside The Perimeter (I285 surrounding Atlanta), for a Family Date Night: Mom, Dad, <b>15yo Puberty Angst Boy</b>, <b>12yo Drama Queen</b> and <b>9yo ADHD Phenom</b>.</p><p><b>Go Gladiators!</b>  We hooked up with tickets (via Ticketmaster) to the professional minor league hockey of metro Atlanta, the <a href="http://www.gwinnettgladiators.com/home.asp">Gwinnett Gladiators</a> -- and we had a great time.</p><p>We were almost right on the ice, behind the penalty box and the announcer, Section 118, Row C in the Gwinnett Arena.  At first, we thought we would move up higher, for a more unobstructed view of the ice and the jumbotrons, but we ended up staying down with the bad boys of the penalty boxes and the announcer -- never even realized the mastery of The Voice: this guy was amazing!  Not only did he call the game and follow his script of announcements and promos, he also ran all the music and sound effects on a laptop computer!  He may have been running the lights and advertising banners, too, for all we know.</p><p>The Gladiators ultimately lost, 4 - 5, in a tie-breaking shoot-out against the Florida Everblades, but what a game!</p><p>The kids had a great time, which is a rare and very special occasion anymore, when all three can be pleasant and have fun together, all at the same time.</p><p>And I discovered one really important, wonderful thing about hockey and ADHD: nobody even notices, or has any problem at all with, a 9yo boy who is active and exuberant, noisy and fully enjoying the action, in his seat, albeit bouncing a bit -- it was a beautiful night.  Perfect.  </p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/rss-comments-entry-6204147.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>From Our Favorite iPhone App Developers...</title><category>FUN</category><category>Love</category><category>Romance</category><category>Sex</category><category>iphone</category><dc:creator>Sherri Caldwell</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 18:45:51 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/2009/12/30/from-our-favorite-iphone-app-developers.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5580:36934:6173148</guid><description><![CDATA[Cool - LuvShaker has two iPhone apps in the running for the 2009 Best App Ever Awards by <a href="http://www.148Apps.com">148Apps</a>.  Many thanks to Dan Grigsby at <a href="http://www.mobileorchard.com/best-app-ever-awards-better-odds/">www.MobileOrchard.com</a> for letting us know about it!<br> <br>

Check it out and support the effort:<br>

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text-align:center;color: #d9d9d9;">Nominate<br><b>24 Hour Love Challenge</b><br>for<br><b>Best App for Parents</b><br><a href="http://bestappever.com/c/pakd/327496752/nom" target="_blank"><img src="http://bestappever.com/images/button_nominate.png" border=0></a></center></div>

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text-align:center;color: #d9d9d9;">Nominate<br><b>LuvMeter</b><br>for<br><b>Best Retro Reborn Game</b><br><a href="http://bestappever.com/c/rtgm/342123401/nom" target="_blank"><img src="http://bestappever.com/images/button_nominate.png" border=0></a></center></div>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/rss-comments-entry-6173148.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>A Very Sad Dog</title><category>Mocha</category><category>Pets</category><dc:creator>Sherri Caldwell</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 05:01:31 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/2009/12/29/a-very-sad-dog.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5580:36934:6161774</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><img class='iphone-image' src='http://www.rebelhousewife.com/resource/iphone-20091229000131-1.jpg?fileId=5183138'/></p><p>Poor Mocha-the-Dog...we thought she got bit or scratched at the dog park last week, but it turned out to be a gooey skin infection from allergies.  Ick, indeed, poor thing.</p><p>Fortunately, the good people at the Banfield Animal Clinic at PetSmart fixed her up and gave us a shelf-full of doggy drugs and special ointment, cleanser, shampoo and conditioner.  $350 later, we are enrolled in the Pet Wellness Program, enjoy free office visits, 5% discounts (but not on the expensive prescription dog food) and free annual vaccinations, comprehensive exams and counseling...Merry Christmas!</p><p>Unfortunately, they also gave her the biggest damn cone of shame we have ever seen.  She is depressed.  And confused.  She gets stuck whenever she runs into anything...she just stands there, as if suction-cupped into place.</p><p>We're going to be-dazzle her cone for her -- she looks like the Sun Goddess or a Las Vegas showgirl with the elaborate headdress.  Of course, all the kids want to try it on...</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/rss-comments-entry-6161774.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>New Year's Resolution #1: EMEALZ</title><category>Recipes - Easy</category><category>Saving Money</category><dc:creator>Sherri Caldwell</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 01:36:23 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/2009/12/28/new-years-resolution-1-emealz.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5580:36934:6161077</guid><description><![CDATA[It has been A Monday, spent mostly at the vet with Mocha-the-Dog.  Before I get to THAT (next post), have to talk about food, recipes and meal planning; one of my New Year's Resolutions (yes, we're back to THAT this year, although I thought I had aged out of that particular angst...guess not).<br> <br>

I got a <a href="http://astore.amazon.com/therebelhouse-20/detail/B000JJNT9Q">Crock Pot</a> for Christmas (among other, somewhat more glamorous gifts, I assure you), which I am actually very excited about.  I am going to be (kind of) homeschooling our <b>9yo ADHD/Aspy Phenom</b> for the rest of the year, and I need to establish some order amidst our typical chaos and get a little more organized about running the house and feeding the animals around here.  Fortunately, Santa also brought a great cookbook:<br> <br> 

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Yum, with pictures!<br> <br>

Beyond that, even, I came across an unbelievably terrific -- and <i>CHEAP!</i> -- meal planning service for busy Moms (thanks to a Twitter mention from @ConfidentMom two weeks ago): <a href="http://e-mealz.com/amember/go.php?r=84657&i=l0">E-MEALZ Easy Meals for Busy and Frugal Families</a> - I signed up today using advertising code "dave" for 20% discount (working as of 12/28/2009).  I subscribed to the Publix Family Meal Plan (they have several options) for $5/month and I get a complete 7-dinner plan, menu and grocery list each week, coordinated to the sales in the Publix flyer that week - wow!<br> <br>

Armed with my awesome new Crock Pot, a great cookbook and menu & meal planning help from EMEALZ, I am ready:<br> <br>

<h3>New Year's Resolution #1<br>
<i>I will plan, research, shop and make wonderful, healthy meals for my family this year so we can lose a little weight, save a little money and enjoy greater health & happiness in 2010!</i></h3><br>

Yeah.  I'll let you know how it goes...]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/rss-comments-entry-6161077.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Who Says Grown-Ups Can't Have Fun...</title><category>Romance</category><category>Sex</category><category>iphone</category><dc:creator>Sherri Caldwell</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 03:47:58 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/2009/12/14/who-says-grown-ups-cant-have-fun.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5580:36934:6065945</guid><description><![CDATA[I've been moonlighting over at <a href="http://www.LuvShaker.com">LuvShaker.com</a>, since our first iPhone Romance App was approved (<i>finally!</i>) after 3+ months and 4 re-submits...
<br> <br>

Read all about it -- and if you are interested in testing 24 Hours of Love for Review, please contact me for a promo code at sherri@LuvShaker.com.  <b>We would greatly appreciate positive ratings and reviews</b> for our very first Mobile Software Application!
<br> <br>

<h3>Who Says Grown-Ups Can't Have Fun With iPhone Apps Too?</h3>
Atlanta, GA    Dec 01, 2009 in iPhone<br> <br>

[prMac.com] Atlanta, GA - LuvShaker.com is pleased to announce the release of their first application for the iPhone and iPod Touch: <i>24 Hours of Love CHALLENGE - A Game of Romance & Passion for Lovers</i>. With 24 Hours of Love, LuvShaker introduces unique and engaging iPhone/iPod entertainment for romance, couples, relationships and sexual intimacy.
<br> <br>

24 Hours of Love is based on a simple challenge to revive and renew an intimate relationship: Over the next 30 days, make love at least once during each and every hour of the 24-hour clock.<br>
(To clarify: that's 24 times over 30 days, not 24 times in one day!) 
<br> <br>

Make Love! Participants decide when, where, why, how & what constitutes a Score! The app offers a fun, easy and convenient interface to keep track of the hours scored and a Bed Post Progress Journal for brief notes along the way. With each successful Score, lovers earn a romance tip from the Love Wizard to help them on their quest. When the last hour of the Challenge is scored, participants are awarded access to the 24 Hours of Love Challenge BONUS EBOOK: 101 Sexy & Fun Tips for Romance & Love. The game can be re-set and played again and again to develop new and healthy habits of Love & Passion.<br> <br>

24 Hours of Love CHALLENGE features:<br>
* A fun way for couples to re-connect<br>
* Recession-friendly (cheap!) entertainment<br>
* More Fun, More Love, More Passion - Guaranteed<br>
* Best holiday gift ever for $1.99!<br> <br>

Supported Languages<br>
US English<br> <br>

System Requirements<br>
iPhone or iPod Touch running iPhone OS 3.0 or later<br> <br>

Pricing and Availability<br>
24 Hours of Love CHALLENGE 1.0 is only $1.99 (USD) on the iTunes App Store in the Lifestyle category.<br> <br>

<a href="http://www.luvshaker.com/">LuvShaker.com</a><br>
<a href="http://www.luvshaker.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=54&Itemid=57">24 Hours of Love CHALLENGE 1.0</a><br>
<a href="http://www.linktoapp.com/24+Hour+Love+Challenge">Purchase and Download</a><br>
<a href="http://www.luvshaker.com/images/stories/pics/Main_Screen.png">Screenshot 1</a><br>
<a href="http://www.luvshaker.com/images/stories/pics/24hr_icon.png">App Icon</a>
<br> <br>

LuvShaker, a division of The Rebel Housewife, LLC dba FetchREX, is based in Atlanta, Georgia. LuvShaker was launched in 2008 to produce mobile software applications for romance, coordinated with the website, eBooks and LuvShops for romantic ideas and helpful accessories. Copyright (C) 2009 The Rebel Housewife, LLC. All Rights Reserved. Apple, the Apple logo, iPhone and iPod are registered trademarks of Apple Inc. in the U.S. and/or other countries.<br> <br>

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Sherri Caldwell<br>
Director of Marketing and Promotion<br>
LuvShaker.com<br>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/rss-comments-entry-6065945.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>It's Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas...</title><category>Atlanta</category><category>FUN</category><category>Family</category><category>Holiday</category><category>Kids</category><category>Life at 40</category><category>Moms</category><category>Parenting</category><dc:creator>Sherri Caldwell</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 16:48:00 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/2009/12/11/its-beginning-to-look-a-lot-like-christmas.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5580:36934:6041289</guid><description><![CDATA[...or is it?!<br> <br>

I'm trying, I really am -- and this will not be one of those whining, complaining blog posts about how hard the Holidays are on Mom; how there's never enough time or money or magic; how everybody's either looking for donations, cash, checks, party contributions or time on your oh-so-limited calendar...<br> <br>

No, let's not go there.<br> <br>

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The Holidays can be, and usually are, stressful, but there's also an awful lot of good stuff.  I can come up with 10 Things to Be Excited About, I know I can:<br>
<ol><li><b>The Magic</b> kids still believe in: My older kids, now almost-15 and 12, want to force a confession about Santa, in no small part to "educate" their younger 9-year-old brother.  I keep the discussion limited:  "If you don't believe in the Magic, the Magic won't believe in you...and THE MAGIC can't leave you a really great gift under the tree or a stocking full of goodies!"  (It works!)</li>
<li><b>Christmas Lists!</b>  If my children do no other creative writing all year, I can count on them for something truly entertaining and wonderful on the "Come-on Santa, Bring It All and Make My Miserable Life Complete Request List."  Want to see an example? <a href="http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/2009/12/11/9-year-olds-wish-list-boy.html">9yo Boy's Wish List</a></li>
<li><b>The Giving:</b> Not so much the shopping, but the thinking, the planning, the scheming to surprise and delight, the giving is wonderful, especially when you find Just The Right Thing, big or small, for someone special.</li>
<li><b>Gingerbread Cookies!</b>  An annual tradition in the Rebel Household, we make armies and armies of decorated Gingerbread Men for holiday parties, school friends, teacher gifts and neighbors...</li>
<li><b>Cold Weather & Snuggling</b></li>
<li><b>Winter Break</b> - sleeping in and NO HOMEWORK!</li>
<li><b>Christmas Cards</b> - love to receive, even the letters.</li>
<li><b>Decorations & Light Displays</b> - another annual tradition, the Christmas Drive-Around to see all the lights and displays.  We drive far and wide, to professional displays (around Atlanta: <b>Stone Mountain</b>, <b>Lake Lanier Islands</b>, <b>Calloway Gardens</b>) and to see everything at homes & businesses in-between.  With a Thermos of hot chocolate, a to go box of gingerbread men and holiday music on the car stereo (now XM Radio Channel #23 - Holly) and we are set for several evenings of family entertainment.</li>
<li><b>Christmas Music</b> - all of it, from classical to elevator renditions to The Chipmunks!</li>
<li><b><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/therebelhouse-20?_encoding=UTF8&node=11">Christmas Classics - TV Shows & Books</a></b></li></ol><br>

That's it.  It's nice to keep it simple.  Of course, there is Christmas Morning and the children's delight (hopefully) over their holiday haul; visiting friends & family and oh, yes, the holiday eating...<br> <br>

It is beginning to look -- and feel -- a lot like Christmas...<br>
I'm on it!]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/rss-comments-entry-6041289.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>9-Year-Old's Wish List (BOY)</title><category>Family</category><category>Gifts</category><category>Holiday</category><category>Humor</category><category>Kids</category><category>Kids Birthday</category><category>Moms</category><category>Money</category><category>iphone</category><dc:creator>Sherri Caldwell</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 16:29:21 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.rebelhousewife.com/sherris-rebel-blog-the-writing/2009/12/11/9-year-olds-wish-list-boy.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5580:36934:6041451</guid><description><![CDATA[[Note: This is a boy who LOVES technology and has an older brother and sister to expose him to the finer and more expensive things in life - note the absence of Legos or Star Wars or games & toys targeted and marketed to this age group...Still, it's a fine example of a Christmas Wish List, verbatim!]<br> <br>

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<h3><b>9yo BOY's Wish List</b></h3>
<ol>
<li>$$$!</li>
<li>Premium Membership on Webs.com (Enhanced Premium)</li>
<li>$50 iTunes Money</li>
<li>My Own Macbook Air</li>
<li>My Own Phone</li>
<li><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/therebelhouse-20/detail/3293000010">RC Helicopter</a></li>
<li><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/therebelhouse-20/detail/B0002AHREK">RC Car</a></li>
<li><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/therebelhouse-20/detail/B0026J7EIO">Nerf Gun</a></li>
<li>PIZZA!!!!!</li>
<li>ROOT BEER!!!!!</li>
<li><b>The Schools Getting Rid of Homework 4 Good.</b></li>
<li>More Money!!!</li>
<li><b>A Perfect Christmas Tree</b></li>
<li>More Subscribers on My Website</li>
<li><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/therebelhouse-20/detail/B001UEUHCG">The Mind Flex</a> </li>
<li>Outrageous Builders Club on ROBLOX</li>
<li>A bigger allowance</li>
<li>A pet Golden Retriever</li>
<li>A successful ROBLOX game</li>
<li><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/therebelhouse-20/detail/B001T8S62Q">My own DSi</a></li>
<li><b>An awesome Christmas</b></li>
<li><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/therebelhouse-20/detail/0321647238">An iPod Touch 3G</a></li>
<li>More Webs.com Credits</li>
<li>Advertisements for My Website</li>
<li><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/therebelhouse-20/detail/B000VEWWF6">A Go-Kart</a></li>
<li>Ideas for my next year's Wish List</li>
<li><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/therebelhouse-20/detail/B002LBGB1S">XBOX 360</a></li>
<li>My sister's and my meter ideas for my own [iPhone] App.<br>
[See Mom & Dad's Luv Meter FREE iPhone App at: <a href="http://www.luvshaker.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=60&Itemid=57">www.LuvShaker.com</a>]</li></ol>
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RT @JoanCelebi: New Post: 17 Tips for Calming Your Child with Special Needs <a href="http://twurl.nl/fu7y02">http://twurl.nl/fu7y02</a> (via @aspergers2mom)<br>
<i>26 minutes ago from Twitterrific</i><br> <br>

It has been a rough week with <b>9yo ADHD/Aspergers Phenom</b>, 4th grader.  The poor kid has not been able to catch a break with homework: remembering to write assignments down in his agenda and bring home everything he needs, i.e. books, worksheets, etc.  This, in essence, is the one thing he must do to earn his afternoon "Computer Pass" at home, which is his most-favorite activity and incentive.<br> <br>

He came home Tuesday with *nothing* in his backpack...Oh, Lord...<br> <br>

My #1 task is to STAY CALM, because it is only when I am calm that I can help him get through any meltdown.  If I get uptight and upset, if I start yelling back at him, it only feeds the fire.  This is one of those home base concepts I have had to learn -- probably the exact reason this special child was given to me.  So I go into CALM mode, breathe, breathe...<br> <br>

He goes APESHIT (the only way I can adequately describe it):<br>
Full-out on the floor, kicking, screaming, crying, wailing, cursing life and the universe.<br>
He had after-school plans on the computer (a full agenda, in fact -- he scribes endless To Do Lists for himself for computer time, just not schoolwork), important stuff to do on his new website and on ROBLOX.com, which is where he currently spends most of his computer time and which is an amazing game and programming environment.  But he didn't have the required "Computer Pass."<br> <br>

Dramatic screaming and rolling on the kitchen floor (him, not me - staying calm).  I *calmly* told him he would start losing time from his bedtime if he continued screaming at me, five minutes at a time.  I thought I was going to lose my mind and my cool.  He lost five minutes: "Bedtime at 8:25 tonight."  And he stopped.  Laying in the middle of the kitchen floor, he just shut it off, which was...disconcerting (eye of the storm?).<br> <br>  

He took a deep breath, sat up and, oddly enough, crawled into one of the lower (mostly empty) kitchen cabinets.  He then announced, calmly: "Fine.  I'm just going to stay in this cabinet the rest of the day, then."  Ummmmm...okay?<br> <br>

I took a deep breath, gave him a few minutes, and then I quietly gathered a few items and set them outside his cabinet door: a bagel, a flashlight and several books.  I knocked on the door.  He opened it.  I removed a basket of plastic storage containers, really the only thing in that cabinet, and pointed to the things I had left for him.  He took them inside, closed the cabinet door and said, "Thanks, Mom."<br> <br>

He stayed in the cabinet, what he now calls his "pantry" (he put up a sign) for a good part of the afternoon and evening, coming out for fresh supplies and a couple of cushions -- those kitchen cabinets aren't really made for butt-comfort, you know.<br> <br>

I'm not really sure what the moral of this story is, except to say:  Sometimes, a kid just needs his space -- a small, dark, enclosed, peaceful, safe space of which he is in control.  For thinking and reading.  For calming down.<br> <br>

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Yes, it is THAT time again.  I suddenly find myself FORTY-TWO (42) YEARS OLD.  Wow.<br>
And the really surprising thing is...it has been a great day, after a wonderful long weekend birthday getaway with my hubby to Florida.  By all indications so far, 42 is going to be a fabulous year.  It's also the number of my current-favorite NASCAR driver, Juan Pablo Montoya, AND the Secret of the Universe, right?  (According to <a href="http://astore.amazon.com/therebelhouse-20/detail/1400052920">The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy</a>.)<br> <br>

With all the excitement of the long weekend, I didn't expect much today -- I was looking forward to two hours in the Media Center at <b>9yo ADHD Phenom's</b> elementary school! -- but everybody surprised me, in small ways throughout the day: with a candle taped to my coffee cup; birthday cards, greetings, emails and tweets; several very well-chosen, very cool gifts (Thank You!!!) and a wonderful Japanese Hibachi meal performed at the table in front of us at <a href="http://www.nakatorestaurant.com/">Nakato Japanese Steakhouse</a> in Atlanta.  The kids were really good at the restaurant and didn't fight or torment each other (or us!), too much.<br> <br>

Somewhere in all of that -- actually, before all of that, for the most part -- I decided to indulge myself a little bit today with a few goodies from my new-favorite online boutique: <a href="http://www.rebelhousewife.com/rebel-reviews/2009/10/27/peacelovemomcom-great-gifts-for-mom.html">PeaceLoveMom</a>.  Check out the <a href="http://www.rebelhousewife.com/rebel-reviews/">Rebel Review</a> and see what could be all the rage (and perfect!) in gifts for Mom this year.<br> <br>  

Because, you know, with my birthday today...'tis officially the Season and Christmas will be here before you know it!<br> <br>

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